Conversations Help with Language Development

How:

CREATE INVITATIONS FOR CONVERSATION! Talking with your child is so important for language development. Here are some easy ways to build in conversation:

  • Place a really enticing game/object out of reach

  • Interrupt the routine/do something unexpected (Planned Accident)

  • Offer parts of a toy (e.g., puzzle) bit by bit

  • Offer choices between activities and items (e.g.,’ Should we make a puzzle or play a game?’ ‘Do you want purple play-doh or blue play-doh?’)

  • Have your child create some artwork and ask them to tell you about their picture. Write below the picture what they said.

  • Play! Get on the floor and play with your child.

WH-Questions:

How? Visuals such as pictures can help elicit a correct response. Giving the child options is a great way to simplify the activity (e.g., “What do you cut paper with, a banana or scissors?”). Additionally, telling the child the answer, and then asking them the question again may be helpful.

Hierarchy of easiest to hardest:

  • What

  • Who

  • Where

  • When

  • Why

Answering WH-questions is a complex skill that lays the foundation for children to participate in conversations and demonstrate knowledge. WH-questions require children to understand what is being asked, process the question, come up with an answer, and say their answer.

  • Home activity: While reading simple picture books, ask your child questions such as “Who is that?” or “What is she/he doing?”


Why:

Language is not the same as speech. Language is about how we connect socially. Strong language helps us comprehend the meanings behind words, helps us put words together in a sentence in order to communicate and understand commands, directions and information given by others. Children must develop language skills to relate with their parents and peers, as well as grow into a person who can socially interact with others through life.